Rollup merge of #155547 - aerooneqq:better-disambiguators, r=oli-obk

Use per-parent disambiguators everywhere

This PR addressing the following concerns about per-parent disambiguators (rust-lang/rust#153955):

- DisambiguatorState is removed, PerParentDisambiguatorState is now used everywhere,
- Steals were removed from every per-parent disambiguator in resolver,
- It adds `parent` field in `PerParentDisambiguatorState` in `#[cfg(debug_assertions)]` for asserting that per-parent disambiguator corresponds to the same `LocalDefId` which is passed into `create_def`,
- ~Removes `Disambiguator` trait replacing it with `Disambiguator` enum, with this change we no longer expose `next` method (as trait should be public otherwise the warning will be emitted). It may affect perf in a negative way though.~

~Those changes should not fix perf issues that were [reported](https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/153955#issuecomment-4269223191), perf run that was attempted [before](https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/153955#issuecomment-4214516698) showed much better results. Performance can be probably fixed by removing per-parent disambiguators replacing them with a single one as it was before, then it will be passed to AST -> HIR lowering and modified. For delayed owners we can store ~followup disambiguators as it was in the beginning of the rust-lang/rust#153955~ per-parent disambiguators. This solution should save achievements from rust-lang/rust#153955 (removed `DefPathData` variants).
However, I would prefer to keep per-parent disambiguators as it seems a better architectural solution for me.~

r? @petrochenkov
cc @oli-obk